How To Have Sex, Part 3: Beliefs and Misconceptions
For all 4 parts, listen to the corresponding podcast episode! How To Have Sex, Part 3: Beliefs and Misconceptions There are many ideas about sex, either explicitly discussed or expressed implicitly, that can poison it. These ideas are maladaptive because they stem from, or easily induce, the emotions discussed in the previous post. I will list some of these false beliefs, then follow them with a more adaptive rebuttal. - Sexual satisfaction, arousal, and orgasm are based on physical attractiveness . Not so. Firstly, there is no objective measure of physical attractiveness. And, as stated in the first two posts, emotional intimacy is a MUCH stronger predictor of how much you enjoy sex, and your relationship in general. Just look at success rates of celebrity marriages! - Sex is a need. Sex is not like food, water, or sleep. You won't die without it. You may, however, experience various levels of discomfort depending on what degree you have used sex for stress relief. If there is